Musings on my adventures around the world and my ties back in Texas as well as some of the the ideas I have to adapt and create to keep those places close to home.

Showing posts with label communication. Show all posts
Showing posts with label communication. Show all posts

Saturday, June 9, 2007

Interpretations

"It is almost impossible to send a message that does not have at least some cultural content, whether it's in the words themselves, in the way they are said, or in the nonverbal signals that accompany them. and even is it were possible to send a message without any cultural content, it's not possible to receive one without passing it through the filter of one's own cultural conditioning." -??

This past week I've had interesting conversations with two separate people. The topics themselves were not so staggering or amazing, but it was what taking these two conversations together made me consider. They were both quite similar discussions about what a specific e-mail we had received meant. Discussions that revealed we had interpreted fairly simple sentences in completely different ways. And we were two North Americans coming from fairly similar backgrounds. It made me start to see how things between us and some of the Turks can get so confusing. If two people coming from similar places can't read three sentences while getting the same impression what chance do a lot of cross country interactions have? I'm hoping that this reminder will give me a bit more patience and understanding when I have trouble getting my point across in the future (which happens plenty...you should of seen me trying to explain what I meant by the word "hiss" to my office mates last week). It's a good reminder, one that I was made aware of during my peace corps years, but one that as I continue to move around needs to be refreshed in my mind.

Monday, April 30, 2007

Translation Fun

Received an e-mail today from the person in charge of keeping up with our lojman repairs and such... "The lojman flyswatters will be restored next days.If you have a problem with your lojman’s flyswatters, please inform us." Made me stop for a minute. My flyswatter? Hey, I didn't get one of those at the beginning of the year, it might have come in handy...My mind picturing the plastic handle with a square on the end. Or do they mean an electrical bug zapper? That would be cool (not likely). The next e-mail from another international teacher shed a bit of light "flyswatter = flyscreen (on windows/doors) ... not the plastic on the end of a stick used to squash annoying pests" Of course. That's cool too. I'll be happy to not have bugs flying in and out of my lojman anymore.

Monday, April 16, 2007

It's all Greek to me

Its funny how even on the most calm of days when you're traveling something always seems to happen that is worth writing about. That was true on one of our last days in Crete. We'd had a pretty straightforward day. Quite a bit of driving, a little bit of sightseeing. It was easy to tell we were winding down the vacation. We arrived in the town of Agia about 5:00. I wasn't that impressed with the town at first look (or really after we'd been there a while - although I will say the people were really nice). We decided to stay the night anyways, didn't feel much like driving on and it would definitely be cheaper then go on into Iraklion.

We stopped at a hotel mentioned in our guide book and spent about 5 minutes trying to figure out where to go to see if they had a room available. Rang the door bell a few times and were standing there looking lost when a little old lady came up and asked "rooms?" (I think that was all of her English) A stream of Greek followed our "yes" and she proceeded to ring the bell a few times, knock on the door and yell "Magaurite." When she didn't get an answer to proceeded to give what I thought were directions to another place, only it turns out that she wanted to get in the car and show us. Now getting directions from someone who only speaks Greek, even when she's sitting in the front seat (I squashed myself into the back because it just seemed easier) is not that easy. But we managed and ended up parked where she wanted. At which point she led us inside, exchanged a patter of Greek with another little old woman, who yelled upstairs to her husband to show us the room. Never mind that the couple only spoke Greek as well, we ended up with a room for the night. Tiny but clean, at this point I was just happy to have a bed.

Sadly this wasn't it for my Greek-English in-communication for the night. When we came back from dinner we realized that our radiator was not working and our room was cold! We dithered back and forth over whether the blankets would be enough to keep us warm but finally Dee convinced me to go back downstairs and try to talk to our landlady (since she was already tucked up under said blankets). Right. How do you tell someone that can't speak your language that you have no heat? You tell them you're cold...by pretending to shiver and then pointing upstairs to the room. Spurt of Greek...which I think was her repeating what I pantomimed in actually words, and if it wasn't I agreed anyways. It got her to come upstairs at least, where she felt the radiator and agreed there was no heat then shrugged her shoulders as if to say "I don't know why." She went back down to get her glasses, came back up, yelled for her husband again. When he came up some long interaction in Greek took place, which also involved them tramping in and out of the room several times (never mind that there was hardly room for two people to stand up at the same time, much less walk past each other). Judging by touch, they exclaimed in happiness when the pipes begin to heat up. As did I. My bumbling attempts to communicate without a common language were over. I am a little amazed at how much you can get done without being able to exchange a common word. I will say that living and traveling abroad has made me much better at listening for a general idea instead of listening for words that I can recognize.